August 27, 2015

Saint Peg Doll Exchange

For the second time, our homeschool group ventured into the territory of "Saint Peg Doll Exchange!"  What an absolutely fun odyssey!  Here's how ours worked:

THE INVITATION:
An e-mail went out inviting anyone who wished to participate to choose a saint to paint for a peg doll exchange.  Once the number of the group and each person's saint was determined, the organizer ordered wooden peg dolls (here's what we used on-line from Woodworks, Ltd. at craftparts.com -- we used the 3"+ "Man Body" for male saints and the "Doll Body" for female saints), as well as a pack of inexpensive paint brushes and various flesh colored acrylic paint (the latter available for as little as $0.50 per two ounce bottle at Wal*Mart, Michael's, A.C. Moore, Hobby Lobby, etc.).  Our organizer later was reimbursed for this.

OUR FIRST DATE:
Our organizer hosted our gatherings, but anyone may host.  First, we all brought appetizers (the real reason for getting together -- good food in good company, right!?) and met one night at our organizer's lovely home to dispense the initial supplies and reimburse her.  Then we all sat around various tables together (20 women participated), kabitzing and snacking while we painted all 20 of our own saint's face and head flesh (this is usually the base coat; more on that in a minute).

After that, we collected our newly begun saints and supplies and trundled home to complete their details over the next four weeks with various paints we had purchased on our own.  We gave the pegs a final spray coat of varnish for protection, then got together (again!) to exchange them!

Easy!  Right...?  ;-)

You can do this!  Here's how it went down at my house:

STEP 1
I already had paints and brushes from previous projects, so I lined up my new naked peg dolls, ready to go!  Each detail on every peg doll will get painted at the same time (e.g. - paint everyone's eyes all at once, then all the noses, then all the robes, etc.).

Make a simple sketch on paper and choose colors and symbols which will make your saint readily recognizable.  For example, St. Therese the Little Flower wears a brown Carmelite habit and is holding a crucifix with roses, or St. Patrick wears green robes and is holding a shamrock, etc.

Stained glass windows and Eastern church icons are wonderful inspirations for saints' symbols!  There also are several artists on-line who create beautiful saint peg dolls, both as a hobby or professionally.  I'm not suggesting you steal their designs (that would be artistic plagiarism), but if you use them as a guide and your choices are informed by many it's called, "research."

Please don't be discouraged (as I initially was!) by the incredible detail and layers of dimension with which these talented artists on-line complete their peg dolls!  As you'll see from the diverse results of our group's exchange, what really matters is that this is an endeavor truly accomplished with love.

STEP 2
Paint your peg doll in layers, beginning with the lightest color and largest areas first.  Do not worry about the edges being perfect.  Think about it -- it's easier to paint a dark color neatly over the edges of a light or white area than it is to paint a white color successfully covering the edges of a dark one.  I always begin with the face and head (often lighter flesh tones) or any large area that's going to be white (in this case, for the Sacred Heart of Jesus, Jesus's tunic is white).

In this photo, the peg doll on the left has one coat of white paint and the peg doll on the right has two.  Depending upon the color and effect you want, two coats sometimes are needed for large base areas.

Ta-da!  (....it's not a bib.  It's a tunic!)



Then I painted the base for the faces...



...and the robes.


For the robes, I normally would like to paint a dark undercoat of reddish brown (I use one called, "Rookwood Red"), topped off by some light dry-brushing of a bright red (which I did during the previous saint exchange on the St. Nicholas peg dolls shown later in this post).  But, this time, I decided that one coat of the bright red, leaving visible the natural grain of the wood, actually was a simple way to allow the wood itself to represent the folds and variations of his robes.

STEP 3
After you have painted the large areas of solid color, it's time to give your saints some personal details unique to him or her.  When painting these tiny details, I remove the cap to my paint bottle and just dab my paint brush right into the bit of paint in the cap, as opposed to pouring a blob of paint on my palette (just an ordinary square ceramic tile).  It wastes so much less paint and goes much faster!  Because I couldn't resist, I painted the Sacred Hearts first:


Oooo!  Pretty!



Then I painted the brown hair on the head and shoulders, two brown strands on the forehead (a distinctly, "Jesus," detail in iconography), and a chocolate donut beard (sorry, I'm not good at beards).



This was followed by the tiny black cross and crown of thorns, for which I used one of those positively ingenious paint pens (otherwise known as God's gift to artistically challenged people like me)!  I also used it for the center of the eyes.

 
Although it is tempting, DO NOT USE A SHARPIE for any details on your peg doll!  When you spray the protective coat of lacquer at the end, ink from a Sharpie will run down your peg dolls, completely ruining them (which I learned the hard way when I wrote black Sharpie crosses on all my St. Nicholas's white stoles last time...I had to repaint their fronts aaaaaaall over again....ugh!)

Back to our current guy!  When painting eyes, start from the bottom up or the outside in, depending upon how you look at it.  I painted increasingly smaller, concentric, pointed ovals or circles for the whites, the iris/pupil (which can be two separate colors, for example, blue irises and black pupils, but I just chose black for it all), and the glisten.  The glisten is SO easy -- just dab a tiny brush or the end of a toothpick in white and dot it on -- yet SO important for bringing the eyes to life!  Then I painted eyelids and eyebrows in varying shades of brown.

At this point, I realized belatedly I had not left enough evenings to thoroughly complete my 20 peg dolls before the exchange.  Yet, I still hadn't given them a nose nor ANY of the details on the body (except the Sacred Heart).  So, I had to sacrifice pride for punctuality and simply add the noses and a gold collar on the robe and call it a day, looking forward instead to the joy of exchanging saint peg dolls with other homeschool moms whom we love!


Thrilled to be finished, I lined up all my little Jesus fellas outside, ready to spray them with a protective coat of clear glaze.  But then...disaster struck!  The spray I used was from a can in our garage, which must have exceeded its shelf life.  As I ran the spray can lightly back and forth over my guys, a horrible, dappled, white mist appeared on top of them!  And it didn't go away!  Not even 15 minutes later.  ACK!!!  All my hard work for naught!?

The white sprinkling obliterated their hair, their faces, their Sacred Hearts...all the details, everything!!!  All my hard work, defaced.  Literally.  I went into my room and cried.  Then, I stood up, mopped my face, and determined not to give up so easily.

I got a damp terry cloth washcloth and carefully and meticulously wiped off and retouched up with paint all my little peg men, doing what the nuns in my youth had always said, "Offer it up!"  The peg dolls' hair and faces now restored, I got a brand new spray can of protective finish and gave everybody two light coats, spaced about two hours apart.  Whew!  Beautiful!


Because we were doing an exchange, each mom would wind up with a complete set of 20 DIFFERENT saint peg dolls, including one of mine, so I held one back for our family.  Before I gave my guy his protective spray coat, I set about giving him the details that I wish I had allotted enough time to put on all 20 of the peg dolls....


On his front, I added a dot of sparkly red and orange paint to the Sacred Heart, as well as two hands and, edging his robe, a row of six gold and white lace crosses, representing our six children.


On either side, his hands come out of the folds of the arms of his robe, which showed the cuff of his white tunic, a gold band on the robe's cuff, and shadows and highlights throughout the folds.  I used the same brown from his hair to outline the folds and bits of reddish brown and bright red to give the folds depth.

I wish I had been able to paint all 20 peg dolls with this level of detail for people whom I love so much!!!  But, after finishing this one guy, I looked up at the clock and saw it had taken me over an hour just to complete these details on one doll.  Sadly, with everything else our family has going on right now, I just didn't have several more nights before the exchange to spend at least 20 more hours painting....  :-(

THE EXCHANGE
For the completed peg dolls, we wrote our names, the saint's name, and the year on the bottom of the pegs with a fine point Sharpie marker (you can use a Sharpie on the bottom of the raw wooden pegs, because that doesn't get painted nor sprayed with the lacquer finishing coat).  Then everyone will gather at our organizer's home for another fun evening with faith-filled friends!  When I receive the new set of 20 peg doll saints, I'll post a group picture here.

THE PAINTERS
For some of the women painting their peg dolls, the project became a delightful, solitary, silent, therapy late in the evenings after a busy day, with the wee folk in bed.  For others, it became a family affair, with moms painting the base coats and teens painting the teeny tiny details.  One mom, who painted St. Faustina, said she even found a shortcut by decoupaging a miniature paper cut-out image of the Divine Mercy onto the front of her saint!  She painted the bodies, one child applied the Divine Mercy decoupage image, and her teenager painted all the facial details.  How clever!

IN CONCLUSION
However you decide to paint your dolls, you have to look at it like cooking -- the main ingredient that matters is LOVE!  These wonderful women chose to give up some of their mornings, afternoons, or evenings to paint and then get together to exchange inspirational, old-fashioned, Catholic, wooden people.

For some of us, our saints will be lined up on a shelf in our schoolrooms, smiling reminders of what we ALL are called to be.  For others, a few treasured favorites will be distributed to our children, perhaps as a reminder of their patron or Confirmation saints.  And for others, our children will use them gently as sacramentals and as play things (as in the time I walked into the living room, so proud after my children had ardently quizzed me on who each saint was, only to discover the saints lined up in two rows facing each other, with my son chanting delightedly, "Red rover, red rover, we dare Padre Piiiiiio over!").

Regardless of your motivations, the real benefit is the renewed and shared love, affection, and faith, as well as the peg dolls, exchanged within your group!  After all, who made us?

God made us.

Why did God make us?

God made us to know, love, and serve Him in this world and to be happy with him forever in Heaven.

Those who are happy with God forever in Heaven are the saints.  Remember?  We say it every time we begin the Rosary with the Apostles Creed -- "I believe...in the communion of saints..."  Who better than the saints (who now reside in the actual presence of God!) can provide each of us with an instructive guide on how to become saints ourselves!?

Study the saints.  Learn from them.  They are our elder brothers and sisters in faith.

I saw a quote recently that said, "Every saint has a past and ever sinner has a future."  We all are both -- sinners who are called to be saints.  God will take you whereever you are, but He doesn't expect you to stay there.  He expects you, too, to take up your cross and follow Him -- all the way to Heaven forever!

Wow!  Ain't that great!!??

Amen!

August 21, 2015

The Pledge of Allegiance

Did you know that, when the Knights of Columbus recite The Pledge of Allegiance, they add a special intention?

"I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America and to the republic for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all -- born and unborn."

Scopes Monkey Trial

In light of the current focus on the indescribably, nauseatingly, vile content of videos taken at Planned Parenthood, revealing the dissection and selling of unborn infant body parts (sometimes while still alive) for profit under the guise of purported potentially life-saving medical research (which continues to have no basis in any actual success), I thought this quote from the famous Scopes Monkey Trial was eloquent in articulating the dangerous waters progressive science can place us in when we do not govern what we CAN do by what we SHOULD (or should NOT) do:

This is William Jennings Bryan's, the prosecution for the case, summation of the 1925 Scopes Monkey Trial (distributed to reporters but not read in court):
"Science is a magnificent force, but it is not a teacher of morals. It can perfect machinery, but it adds no moral restraints to protect society from the misuse of the machine. It can also build gigantic intellectual ships, but it constructs no moral rudders for the control of storm-tossed human vessel. It not only fails to supply the spiritual element needed but some of its unproven hypotheses rob the ship of its compass and thus endanger its cargo. In war, science has proven itself an evil genius; it has made war more terrible than it ever was before. Man used to be content to slaughter his fellowmen on a single plane, the earth's surface. Science has taught him to go down into the water and shoot up from below and to go up into the clouds and shoot down from above, thus making the battlefield three times as bloody as it was before; but science does not teach brotherly love. Science has made war so hellish that civilization was about to commit suicide; and now we are told that newly discovered instruments of destruction will make the cruelties of the late war seem trivial in comparison with the cruelties of wars that may come in the future. If civilization is to be saved from the wreckage threatened by intelligence not consecrated by love, it must be saved by the moral code of the meek and lowly Nazarene. His teachings, and His teachings alone, can solve the problems that vex the heart and perplex the world."
Jesus, I trust in You!

Lord, drop the scales from our eyes.  Help us to see the scourge of abortion for what it is -- the purposeful killing of defenseless infant humans where they should be the most safe, in their mother's womb.  Help us to reach out generously to women in crisis pregnancies and offer to help them in any way we can, so they may bring to fruition the precious new life YOU have given us all!

Amen.

August 18, 2015

The Mass and Homeschooling

Here's a quick, encouraging, spiritual shot in the arm to inspire both our attendance at Mass and our vocation as homeschool families!

http://www.setonmagazine.com/latest-articles/mass-homeschooling-the-homily-for-seton-homeschool-graduation-2015

Thank you, Father Seamus O'Kielty!



Prayer and Self-Care

(The following is excerpted from a post entitled, "In God's Time," by Michele Quigley over at Elizabeth Foss's blog, "In the Heart of My Home.")

You must pray. Daily and if at all possible, first thing. It can be tempting to allow the busyness and distractions of life to encroach on your time alone with God and I know it can sometimes feel like you are just too busy for a regular prayer time. The truth is, the busier you are the more you need it.

Mothers in particular can struggle with this. It feels selfish to take that time alone with God but taking time to nourish your relationship with God isn't selfishness, it's self-care and there a very big difference. By nature we are self-focused beings and that isn't an accident. While it has been distorted by sin, it is actually intended for our good and properly focused can be a path to growing in holiness. "Love your neighbor as yourself" assumes that we will love ourselves.

Not in an egotistical way but in the way that God does. Desiring the highest and best good for us, that of union with Him and eternal life. That is self-care.

Selfishness and vanity on the other hand eat away at the soul. They can never be satisfied and they leave us wanting more of the same all the while becoming angry and bitter about what we do not have and cannot do. Self-care, being in relationship with God and nourishing that relationship as the primary one in our lives, fills us with love and overflows into our lives. We want more yes but we want God and we want others to know Him too. It inspires our actions and thinking and helps us to live as children of the light.

You can't give what you don't have. Oh sure, you can serve others for a time while ignoring your interior life but eventually you will burn out. All the saints knew this, they knew how important it was to nourish their interior life and it was only through grace that they were able to do all the things they did --that they were able to love so much. Certainly our Lord Himself set the example for us in this, taking to time to pray in solitude regularly.

(Excerpted from a post entitled, "In God's Time," by Michele Quigley over at Elizabeth Foss's blog, "In the Heart of My Home.")
 

July 12, 2015

The Total Sacrifice of Mothers

Having a tough day, Mom?  Then this one's for YOU!

“I urge you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God, your spiritual worship.”  (Romans 12:1)
 
"The most important person on earth is a Mother. She cannot claim the honor of having built Notre Dame Cathedral. She need not. She has built something more magnificent than any cathedral—a dwelling for an immortal soul, the tiny perfection of her baby’s body. The angels have not been blessed with such a grace… What on God’s good earth is more glorious than this: to be a mother?"  (Joseph Cardinal Mindszenty)

Okay.  So, maybe it's not, "glorious," EVERY day.  Especially not on the days wherein you're ready to tear your hair out, if one...more...person...wails your name...for the forty-eleventh time!

"Maaaaah-ahm!?"

Argghhh!!!

Deep breaths.  Hang in there.

Today might seem like an eternity, but this time with your little ones WILL be fleeting.  You WILL miss this.  And if you so much as blink, you might well miss it altogether.

Take some time for yourself ( ! ).  (Hahahaha!  I know.  What a funny idea!)  Don't be shy about asking a friend or a relative to come babysit the kids for an hour, an afternoon, or an overnight. No, really.  Whatever you need.

Do it.

Not because you have something to do.  But, because YOU, as a mom, need some time to do nothing.

You need some time to completely unwind and recharge, without a single soul requiring that you change a diaper, fill a sippy cup, make a sandwich, fix a toy, clean up [fill in repulsive bodily discharge here], check homework, find a lost favorite shirt, or load everyone into the van and drive somewhere.  Again.

Do it.

Get away.

I mean it.

You are not selfish.  No machine can run without fuel.  That includes you.  And your fuel is not just physical nourishment, whatever the kids left on their plates, or a sip of tea while you wash dishes at the kitchen sink.  As mothers and as women of Catholic faith, we all counsel each other to, "take care of you," but we seldom do it ourselves.

Do it.

Get away.

I mean it.

You will be a healthier mother for having replenished the stores from which you give, and give, and give.  And you and your children will love and enjoy and appreciate each other that much more! 

Do it today!

July 1, 2015

On Perseverance

"Consider it all joy, my brothers, when you encounter various trials, for you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. And let perseverance be perfect, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. But if any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God who gives to all generously and ungrudgingly, and he will be given it." (James 1:1-5)

June 30, 2015

Be Careful What You Ask For...

Today's inspiration is to be careful what you ask for in prayer...because you just might get it.  In spades.  Are you...

Praying for a heart of charity (LOVE) toward others?  Expect someone to come along who is reeeeeeally difficult to love, but needs you to do it anyway.

Praying for JOY?  Perhaps the gift of life, a new baby, is coming into your world!  You know, that proverbial, "bundle of joy?"  The kind that never sleeps through the night, spits up on everything, and has an ear-splitting scream that's piercing enough to shatter glass.  In your ear.

Praying for PEACE?  Expect the nightly news to show, well, more of same.

Praying for PATIENCE (forbearance)?  Expect a situation to come along that quite tries your patience.  Really.

Praying for KINDNESS?  Expect anger to bubble to the surface the next time you struggle to summon up kindness instead.

Praying for GOODNESS?  We can't all be angels, can we?

Praying for GENEROSITY?  Expect to be asked to part with the person, place, or thing you hold most dear.

Praying for GENTLENESS?  Expect someone to do something.  That.  REALLY.  Ticks.  You.  Off.

Praying for FAITHFULNESS?  Expect a possible dull, "dry," time in the way your heart used to soar during private prayer or at Mass.

Praying for MODESTY?  Summer's here.  Good luck finding a modest bathing suit or age-appropriate clothing for your young teenage daughter.

Praying for CHASTITY?  Expect temptation to be thrust into your line of vision, even someplace as seemingly innocuous as the grocery store check-out line!

Praying for FORTITUDE?  Expect a challenge to come along that tests your spiritual strength.  A lot.

Praying for SELF-CONTROL?  Well, now.  That would be a little bit of, "All of the Above," wouldn't it?

But, wait a minute.

None of those answers were the FRUITS of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).  None of those trials are the virtue for which I prayed, are they?  Nooooo.  But, as the old adage goes, the only way to learn patience is the hard way (which my children still don't understand).

When you pray for a virtue, just plan right away on the devil listening in and immediately throwing into your path every opposite vice he possibly can.  He might not be able to divine your private thoughts and prayers to God.  But, the devil's not stupid.  And he is very, very observant.

The antidote, of course, to these challenges that are in direct contradiction to the virtue for which you are praying, is one word.  Actually, He's "The Word."  JESUS!

Oh, it's not that simple.  As Mother Teresa wisely noted from experience, Jesus is not an easy spouse.  He never said, "Take up your silver spoon and follow Me."  Um, no.  He said, "Take up your CROSS and follow Me," (Matthew 16:24).

Where are we following Him?

Ultimately, to Heaven, of course!

As Peter did (but failed to continue to do on the Sea of Galilee, Matthew 14:22-33) keep your eyes on the prize, and you'll be able to weather the storms of life.  Keep your eyes on Jesus.  He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  Believe in Him, follow Him, live your life (yes, even your ole, mundane, run-'o-the-mill, boring, everyday, groundling life) for Him, and He will lead you to Heaven.  'Cause that's where God wants ALL of us to be welcome!

Remember your basic Catechism:

Who made you?  God made you (that would be Jesus).

Why did God make you?  God made you to know, love, and serve Him in this world and to be happy with Him forever in Heaven.

Remember, heaven'll be worth it.  But, God never promised it would be easy getting there.

So, the next time you're praying to be infused with some worthy virtue, brace yourself.  Brace yourself against The Cross.  Because the devil doesn't want you to get to heaven.  But, in the end, and in your life, the Lord will triumph.  In the end, as Our Lady promised at Fatima in 1917, "My Immaculate Heart will triumph."  

Just as surely as you may expect storms in life, expect, too, for His blessings to follow!

May 6, 2015

Today's Inspiration

“Do not look forward to what may happen tomorrow; the same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you tomorrow and every day. Either He will shield you from suffering, or He will give you unfailing strength to bear it

"Be at peace, then, put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginations, and say continually: The Lord is my strength and shield; my heart has trusted in Him and I am helped. He is not only with me, but in me and I in Him.”

(St. Francis de Sales)

March 19, 2015

Catholic Conference 4 Moms - YOU!

http://www.catholicconference4moms.com/
This Lent, as we prepare our hearts and souls for Easter, treat yourself to some spiritual refreshment, rest, and renewal.  Here is your opportunity to attend an awesome online, Catholic, moms conference -- at your convenience, at an incredible price!

http://www.catholicconference4moms.com/

The Catholic Conference 4 Moms was designed for busy moms and homeschooling mothers like us!  The conference includes 27 inspiring talks, four e-books, a rosary craft kit, Catholic foodie podcasts, a discussion guide for personal or group Bible study, and much more!

All this for $39.99!  And if you use the coupon code, "RosaryWraps," (with no spaces) you will receive a $10.00 discount, so the entire conference would be only $29.99!

You pick the speakers.  You pick when to listen to them.  You have just invested in an outstanding Lenten journey of easy spiritual refreshment and preparation for the coming of Our Lord!

http://www.catholicconference4moms.com/prizes.html


The Catholic Conference 4 Moms.  Give it some thought.  Give it your time.  Give it to another mom.  Because as moms, you're are worth it!  Nurture yourself so you may nurture your family!

March 4, 2015

Catholic Conference 4 Moms - Last Chance to Sign Up!

BannerFans.comRemember seeing in the pet store those little plastic terrariums with the hamster racing, panting, on his itsy, bitsy, endlessly, rapidly spinning wheel?  Ever feel like that?

Yeah.  Me, too.

This Lent, treat yourself to some spiritual refreshment, rest, and renewal!  Here is your opportunity to attend a free, online, Catholic, moms conference next month:


http://www.catholicconference4moms.com/

You'll receive a daily e-mail for each of the four days, with links to the speakers for that day.  You may listen to the speakers at any time that day -- before the kids are up, on lunch break, after school, or even after the kids are in bed.

And it's FREE!

That's it!

You pick the speakers.  You pick when to listen to them!  There will even be three prize packages awarded every day of the conference.  You may peek at the prizes here:

http://www.catholicconference4moms.com/prizes.html


At the end of the conference, if you missed anyone or just want to share a great talk with a friend, you may purchase the entire conference on audio for just $39.99.  And if you use the coupon code, "RosaryWraps," (with no spaces) you will receive a $10.00 discount, so the entire conference is only $29.99!

But, for the initial airing, this entire conference is FREE for YOU!

Give it some thought.  Give it your time.  Give it to another mom friend.  Because as moms, YOU are worth it!

February 25, 2015

On Lenten Sacrifice

What should you give up for Lent?

Remember to keep it simple.  Start small.  Don't jump off the cliff during Week One.

For children, give up your favorite toy or activity (e.g. - playing with your dolls, army men, or video games).  Do something in focus or service to God in its place (like, perhaps, graciously play your sister's favorite activity with her instead; oh, go on, it won't kill you).

For adults, give up your favorite indulgent thing.  Don't give up every grain of sugar or candy within a 50 mile radius.  But, perhaps give up buying your favorite chocolate truffles (...I know, I can't believe I just said that!).  Drink water instead of juice or soda.  Give up your favorite purchased drink at Starbucks, put that money in an envelope throughout the week, and place the money in the poor box at church on Sunday.

Remember, Lent is the spiritual version of, "mind over matter."  Show God and yourself that your will is stronger than your flesh.

Start small.  Baby steps.  You can't do this on your own, you know.  Carve out a little sacrifice, a wee pocket of spare time for God, and let Him start filling you up with inspiration and His love.

He died on the cross for you.  I think He can handle 40 days with no chocolate.  (After all, one would have to be divine to manage that, right!?)

A Lenten Creed

"The way of life as set down by St. Benedict in his Rule offers a set of Christian ideals which are sufficiently flexible, adaptable, and moderate so that no one need be dismayed or discouraged at failure to achieve the heights of holiness all at once. St. Benedict makes room for many different levels of spiritual progress when he states: '[Let the abbot] so moderate all things that there be something for the strong to strive after and nothing to dishearten the weak,' (RB 64:19)."  (source: http://oblatesavannah.com/oblates/what-are-benedictine-oblates)

I think I've just found my Lenten creed.

Both St. Benedict and St. Francis de Sales preached and wrote often and expansively on finding holiness in one's vocation, right where you are.  Now, thanks to Lent, I've got 40 days to seriously ponder and consider who I am, where I am, and what I am doing in service to God.

Remember:

God made you to know Him, to love Him, and to serve Him in this world and to be happy with Him for ever in Heaven.  Don't miss this chance to renew and refresh your focus on Him by, "giving up," extraneous distractions in your life and clearing a space to be filled by Him.

Liken it to a spiritual shoveling out of the way all the books, toys, and general detritus of your living room when company is about to arrive.  It's not that any of those items are inherently evil or shameful.  They are, however, impediments to your guests having a clear uncluttered path to your best room and the most comfortable chair.

Clear a path for God this Lent.  Invite Him into your heart and your life more deeply by clearing a few non-life-threatening things out of the way.  Don't set yourself up for failure.  I mean, c'mon -- don't give up coffee, cigarettes, and booze all at once.  Pick one and be deliberate about making a choice each day not to indulge in that thing (except on Sundays, the feast of the Resurrection).

Make it simple.  Make it stick.

If you fail, start over.
If you fall, stand up.
If you crumble, stretch out your arm and reach for His hand.

The Lord loves you.  This Lent, let Him in.

21 Martyrs

"The world was not worthy of them," (Hebrews 11:38)

"They conquered him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony; love for life did not deter them from death.  Therefore, rejoice, you heavens, and you who dwell in them.
But woe to you, earth and sea, for the Devil has come down to you in great fury, for he knows he has but a short time,” (Revelation 12:11-12).