St. Andrew Christmas Novena....Ooops.

Hey, remember the St. Andrew Christmas Novena?

Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing cold.  In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God, to hear my prayers and grant my desires, through the merits of our Savior Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother.  Amen.

Well?  Did you make it?  Were you able to pray the novena prayer 15 times per day, as prescribed!?

....yeah, me neither.

I must say, it really did help to break up the novena into praying it five times at three separate meals.  The kids were super about reminding me.  "Mom!" they'd gasp.  "The prayer!"  However, the further we ventured into the busy preparations of Advent, the more often I found myself forgetting about the novena until well after midnight and into the next day, thus having missed the present day's 15 times requirement.  Again.

I was getting quite discouraged about this, until a little urging from my guardian angel reproved me for my disappointment in not fulfilling the novena.

"Really?" it said.  "Is that the reason you were praying this novena?  So that you could recite a particular incantation and win a prize?  Is that what you think!?"

Well, no!  Of course not!

And there, my dear friends, was my humble reminder that there is a big difference between superstition and prayerful petition.  To wit, from the Catechism of the Catholic Church:

III. "You Shall HaveNo Other Gods Before Me"

2110 The first commandment forbids honoring gods other than the one Lord who has revealed himself to his people. It proscribes superstition and irreligion. Superstition in some sense represents a perverse excess of religion; irreligion is the vice contrary by defect to the virtue of religion.

Superstition

2111 Superstition is the deviation of religious feeling and of the practices this feeling imposes. It can even affect the worship we offer the true God, e.g., when one attributes an importance in some way magical to certain practices otherwise lawful or necessary. To attribute the efficacy of prayers or of sacramental signs to their mere external performance, apart from the interior dispositions that they demand, is to fall into superstition.

Thus, praying a novena, or any other prescribed set of prayers, is in no way a guarantee of the requested results.  Conversely, if a novena or prayer is not fulfilled in precisely the correct manner, that, too, is no guarantee that the Lord will not grant your desire.

Quite simply, the Lord knows your heart.  And if the desire of your heart is within His will, then He will fulfill it....no matter what lil' ole YOU do.

So, after reading the Catechism, I not only renewed my efforts to remain faithful to praying the St. Andrew Christmas Novena, I have continued to recite it even after the great feast of Christmas, during the following Twelve Days of Christmas.

Did I then subsequently fulfill it every day?  Um, still no.

But, thank God for the Magisterium of the Catholic Church!  I now pray this prayer with so much more JOY and true LOVE in my heart for the Infant Christ Child, ever since I refined, researched, redefined, and renewed my focus on what it means to truly and prayerfully participate in the St. Andrew Christmas Novena.

Besides, God willing, there's always next year!

Is It REALLY Happy Birthday to Jesus Today?

Is today really the correct day to celebrate the birthday of Jesus Christ?  If you're like me, you've heard so many (ever popular) conflicting secular rationales for why it's probably not:

- It would have been too cold outside in December for the shepherds to have been abiding in the fields.

- It's really just the Catholic Church usurping and replacing the pagan feast of Saturnalia.

- The Church just wanted to combat the pagan superstitions associated with the Winter Solstice.

- Etc., etc., etc.

Well, here's a (bit lengthy, but thorough and concise) explanation as to exactly why the Church set the feast day for the Nativity of Our Lord Jesus Christ squarely on December 25th:

http://cantuar.blogspot.com/2012/12/yes-christ-was-really-born-on-december.html

So celebrate with confidence and enjoy!

Finding Peace with the Prince of Peace

 A friend recently posted a request for prayers, as her homeschool responsibilities and Christmas preparations had been cast aside by her son's unexpected admission to the hospital.  As a faithful Catholic, she immediately rejoiced in having time for her and her son to be together in Advent prayer and reading Jotham's Journey.  But, understandably, she nevertheless was a little disappointed that certain school and holiday tasks at home just would have to be left undone this year.

As a compulsive list-maker and cookie-baker myself, I completely understood her frustration with not being able to "accomplish" or "do" the things she wanted to achieve, in order to prepare her family for Christmas.

But, let's also be practical here:

Schoolwork always will be there, whether you do it today or tomorrow or ten months from now.  Your child's good health might not be.  See to him, see to your souls, and see to the internal preparations that God wants you to make this Advent.  Remember, the Bible doesn't say that Mary baked the shepherds some cookies and sent out The First Christmas Cards (that would be Jesus's Shutterfly, photocard, birth announcement).

But it DOES say that she treasured all these things in her heart.

We all should do the same.

I've often found that when God allows all my plans to go completely awry, it's because I was facing in the wrong direction.  Turn your face toward Him, trust in His guidance and Will, and know the inner peace of the Christ Child, the Prince of Peace!

10 Ten Things About Advent

Thank you to Dr. Taylor Marshall for some Advent inspiration!

http://cantuar.blogspot.com/2012/12/10-things-you-should-know-about-advent.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+taylormarshall+%28Canterbury+Tales+by+Taylor+Marshall%29

May your Advent be blessed with joyous preparations for the Christ Child!

Enjoy!

Christmas Novena

Saint Andrew Christmas Novena

Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing cold. In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God! to hear my prayer and grant my desires, through the merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother. Amen.

While a novena is normally a nine-day [or nine hour] prayer, the term sometimes is used for any prayer that is repeated over a series of days. The Saint Andrew Christmas Novena is often called simply the "Christmas Novena" or the "Christmas Anticipation Prayer," because it is prayed 15 times every day from the Feast of Saint Andrew the Apostle (November 30th) until Christmas. The First Sunday of Advent is the Sunday closest to the Feast of Saint Andrew.

The novena is not actually addressed to Saint Andrew, but to God Himself, asking Him to grant our request in the honor of the birth of His Son at Christmas. You can say the prayer all 15 times, all at once, or divide up the recitation as necessary (perhaps five times at each meal).

Prayed as a family, the Saint Andrew Christmas Novena is a very good way to help focus the attention of your children on the Advent season.

(source: by Scott P. Richert at Catholicism.about.com)

Christmas Novena - START TODAY!

While a novena is normally a nine-day [or nine hour] prayer, the term sometimes is used for any prayer that is repeated over a series of days. The Saint Andrew Christmas Novena is often called simply the "Christmas Novena" or the "Christmas Anticipation Prayer," because it is prayed 15 times every day from the Feast of Saint Andrew the Apostle (November 30th) until Christmas. The First Sunday of Advent is the Sunday closest to the Feast of Saint Andrew.

The novena is not actually addressed to Saint Andrew, but to God Himself, asking Him to grant our request in the honor of the birth of His Son at Christmas. You can say the prayer all 15 times, all at once, or divide up the recitation as necessary (perhaps five times at each meal).

Prayed as a family, the Saint Andrew Christmas Novena is a very good way to help focus the attention of your children on the Advent season.

Saint Andrew Christmas Novena

Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing cold. In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God! to hear my prayer and grant my desires, through the merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother. Amen.

(source: by Scott P. Richert at Catholicism.about.com)

Please also include in your prayers Sister Joseph Andrew Bogdanowicz, O.P. and all the Dominican Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist!  Happy Feast Day, Sister!  You can visit them right now at http://www.sistersofmary.org/index.php

Christmas Novena - START TOMORROW!

While a novena is normally a nine-day [or nine hour] prayer, the term sometimes is used for any prayer that is repeated over a series of days. The Saint Andrew Christmas Novena is often called simply the "Christmas Novena" or the "Christmas Anticipation Prayer," because it is prayed 15 times every day from the Feast of Saint Andrew the Apostle (November 30th) until Christmas. The First Sunday of Advent is the Sunday closest to the Feast of Saint Andrew.

The novena is not actually addressed to Saint Andrew, but to God Himself, asking Him to grant our request in the honor of the birth of His Son at Christmas. You can say the prayer all 15 times, all at once, or divide up the recitation as necessary (perhaps five times at each meal).

Prayed as a family, the Saint Andrew Christmas Novena is a very good way to help focus the attention of your children on the Advent season.

Saint Andrew Christmas Novena

Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing cold. In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God! to hear my prayer and grant my desires, through the merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother. Amen.

(source: by Scott P. Richert at Catholicism.about.com)

Christmas Novena

While a novena is normally a nine-day [or nine hour] prayer, the term sometimes is used for any prayer that is repeated over a series of days. The Saint Andrew Christmas Novena is often called simply the "Christmas Novena" or the "Christmas Anticipation Prayer," because it is prayed 15 times every day from the Feast of Saint Andrew the Apostle (November 30th) until Christmas. The First Sunday of Advent is the Sunday closest to the Feast of Saint Andrew.

The novena is not actually addressed to Saint Andrew, but to God Himself, asking Him to grant our request in the honor of the birth of His Son at Christmas. You can say the prayer all 15 times, all at once, or divide up the recitation as necessary (perhaps five times at each meal).

Prayed as a family, the Saint Andrew Christmas Novena is a very good way to help focus the attention of your children on the Advent season.

Saint Andrew Christmas Novena

Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing cold. In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God! to hear my prayer and grant my desires, through the merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother. Amen.

(source: by Scott P. Richert at Catholicism.about.com)

A.M.D.G. - Why We Homeschool!

Okay, folks, for what it's worth, here it is, the skinny on why we homeschool and use Seton Home Study School:


http://www.setonhome.org/3344/ad-majorem-dei-gloriam-to-the-greater-glory-of-god/

I'd love to hear YOUR homeschool and faith-based stories (both triumphant and terrifying!) so we may share some mutual inspiration.

Thank you for the gift of your gracious company here at my blog!  Know that when I count my Thanksgiving blessings, you indeed will be among them!

Hostess Gift: Fudge!

Heading out to Thanksgiving or a holiday party and need a quick hostess gift?

Well, a friend graciously shared the following recipe and I couldn't resist sharing it with you!  Give it ten minutes to make, then 20 minutes to cool in the freezer while you run upstairs and change, and *voila!*   You're off to your party with a delicious, festive, homemade, hostess gift in hand!

I've used this several times already, with great success (and my skill level in the kitchen ranks, "Inept").  Enjoy!

MACKINAC ISLAND FUDGE
1/2 c. milk
1/2 c. butter
1/2 c. firmly packed brown sugar
1/2 c. granulated sugar
1/8 tsp. salt
1 tsp. vanilla
2 c. confectioners' sugar
1/2 c. cocoa
1/2 c. nuts (optional)

- Mix milk, butter, brown sugar, granulated sugar, and salt in heavy saucepan.
- Cook at medium heat until boiling.  Boil exactly six minutes, stirring constantly.
- Remove from heat and add vanilla, cocoa, and confectioners' sugar.
- Beat with mixer until smooth and thick.  Add nuts, if desired.
- Pour into a buttered 9x9 pan and freeze just 20 minutes (otherwise it's too hard to cut).
- Cut into pieces and enjoy!

May Our Lady be your Joy this Advent as she leads you through the Rosary to the Manger, ever closer to the Sacred Heart of her Infant Son, the Prince of Peace, Jesus!  Vive Jesu!

Pray. Hope. And Don't Worry!

As you might guess, I'm not happy about the election results.

Although not Catholic, Mitt Romney is a man of integrity and faith, who understands that God ALREADY has blessed America, and that we therefore must be good stewards of those blessings.  I think Mitt and his wife, Ann, both would have been a blessing to the White House with their gracious presence.

(....*sigh*....)

But, all authority comes from God, so He must have His reasons for allowing the United States' election outcome.  Maybe, as a whole, our country just got what it richly deserves, in return for our culture of death and promiscuous ways.  Remember how often the Israelites got a spanking whenever they strayed?

Fear and despair, however, are from the evil one.  I also hold fast to the faith and fortitude of the remnant Church and the firm hope that, in the end, Our Lady's "Immaculate Heart will triumph!"

.....I just have a feeling it's not going to be very pleasant to get there.

Pray!  Pray!  Pray!  And in the words of St. Padre Pio, "Pray.  Hope.  And don't worry."

Onward Christian soldiers!  Amen!

 

On Subtlety and Grace

"Now the serpent was more subtle than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made." (Genesis 3:1)


And here's how Old Scratch does it in my world:

".....the idea that somehow this is all pointless. I think one way that the devil distracts and dissuades mothers of many, who came to mothering with the best intentions, is to suggest to them that their wide-eyed optimism and extraordinary openness to life was really a very silly propostition. He teases them with the apparent 'failures' of their mothering experiences, the ungrateful children who hurl ugly words, the stumbling sinfulness of every day life. He taunts them with the little ones yet to raise and undermines every last shred of confidence. And he says, 'don't you think you better look for something more? Clearly, this magnum opus isn't turning out so great.'  "  (Elizabeth Foss, "In the Heart of My Home", blog post 11/05/12)

Wow!  Was Elizabeth at MY house today!?  How did she know this?  Well, she probably could hear us.  Because in my house, we don't have the Richter Scale.  We have the Screech Scale.  And the more frustrated Momma is, the higher the register on the Screech Scale.

Thankfully for us all, Elizabeth addresses conversely, with grace and gratitude, the vocation of being "A Servant Mother"  in this post:

http://www.elizabethfoss.com/reallearning/2012/11/a-servant-mother-31-days-to-remember-the-mission-resumes.html

I must remember that God's purpose for me as a mother is not to mold into Perfect People the precious children He has placed on loan to me, but rather to give those children the unending and unconditional love that encourages them to blossom into the perfectly unique people God already knows they have the potential to be.

Oh -- and before you think I can just stand idly by and calmly watch it all unfold, like magic sparkles in a Disney cartoon, let me assure you of this.  I am well aware that I still have to wipe hineys, correct manners, dispense hugs, referee arguments, grade papers, and make semi-palatable dinners.

But that's not the mission.  The mission is to seek God's Will.  And then get out of His way.

"I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth." (III John 1:4)
 

Kitchen Tip #1 for the Inept

Here's hoping I'm not the only person out there who sometimes has to dust off her stove or wasn't quite sure what all those numbers were for on those dials above the, um, thingy.

I'm sure that far more competent cooks than I (and probably even lesser ones, as hard to imagine as that might be) already know this quick 'n dirty trick for shredding chicken, but I can tell you it was a most welcome revelation to me!  Drop boiled, cooked, boneless, skinless chicken breast pieces into your kitchen mixer (yes, normally the bastion of all baked goods), spin it up and *voila!*  Shredded chicken ready literally in 10 seconds or less for BBQ sandwiches, soft shell burritos, omelettes, and more!

Thank you, Jen Schmidt, at http://10MinuteDinners.com for this amazing tip!  You also can visit her blog at
http://beautyandbedlam.com/how-to-shred-chicken/

Yum!  Enjoy!

Birds of a Feather

You know, I'm not a real "group therapy" kinda gal.  But in this regard, I'll make an exception:  if you are a Catholic homeschooling mother, find yourself a support group.  I mean a good support group.  Christian is good; Catholic is best.  Find a group of like-minded Catholic homeschooling moms who are loyal to the Magisterium of the Church and share the same moral values and goals you do for raising children.

Together, you and these families will supply each other with spiritual cousins and the best possible peers you can find.  You will find that a good support group can be incredibly uplifting and very affirming in your vocation as a Catholic homeschooling mother.

For example, I wish you could have heard our discussion on the playground last week at soccer:

"Believe me," one mother snorted.  "I would NOT be doing this if God hadn't told me to do it."

Another nodded in agreement.  "Yeah," she said.  "I mean, do you think I do this for FUN!?"

(...*agreeable laughter*...)

Now, that might SOUND very negative, but if you were there you also would have seen the wry smiles of understanding and the humorous, loving glint in the eyes of mothers who (essentially) lay down their lives for their children EVERY DAY.  A scientist.  A lawyer.  A fund raising executive.  A real estate agent.  A teacher.  Each of them readily could enjoy a life of gainful employment and luxurious material perks with her additional income.

Instead, these mothers teach several different grade levels of school and make hundreds of anonymous sacrifices daily so that their children intimately may know, love, and serve God in this world and be happy with Him forever in heaven.  After all, isn't that what it's all about?

(...please, do not start singing "The Hokey Pokey" here...)

Kathy, you were right -- this DID wind up on my blog, because the inspiration of fellow soldiers in the trenches was too good not to share!  The remembrance (and laughter!) of that single conversation already has buoyed me up on several occasions.

I hope it inspires anyone reading this also to know that, despite what our culture, the media, and the entertainment industry might tell you, you are NOT alone out there.

Ultimately, however, while the company you keep is important in life, in the final estimation it is up to you.

You.

As our parish priest once wisely pointed out, Judas kept the best of company, and look what happened to him. 

Hurricane Sandy

Breezy Point, NYC - Hurricane Sandy, October 2012

Our hearts and prayers are with the folks up and down the Eastern seaboard who suffered loss of life and so very much damage from Hurricane Sandy over the past several days.  The emergency and rescue workers are our heroes.

"Do not look forward to what might happen tomorrow.  The same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you tomorrow and every day.  Either He will shield you from suffering or he will give you unfailing strength to bear it."
(St. Francis de Sales)

O God, to whose commands all the elements give obedience, we humbly entreat you, that the stilling of fearsome storms may turn a powerful menace into an occasion for us to praise you. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.  Amen. (from the Roman Missal)

May Our Lady enfold you in her mantle.  Please be assured of our prayers!

Priesthood Sunday

Today, the last Sunday in October, traditionally is known as Priesthood Sunday.  Please be sure to thank your parish priest today, and thank and pray for any other priests whom you may know.  Our Lady assures us that they need our prayers!

Tomorrow Is Priesthood Sunday

Tomorrow, the last Sunday in October, traditionally is known as Priesthood Sunday.  Please be sure to thank your parish priest this weekend, and thank and pray for any other priests whom you may know.  Our Lady assures us that they need our prayers!

Top 10 Tips for Wheelchair Etiquette

This past week, our Co-Op teen class generously welcomed my eldest son and me to share with them our "Top 10 Tips for Wheelchair Etiquette"!  We'd like to share them with you:
 

Wheelchair Etiquette

1.  The wheelchair is a part of the person's personal space.
Handling someone else's wheelchair or hanging items upon it implies a close, familiar, or familial relationship.  Request permission before taking such liberty. 

2.  Introduce yourself, shake hands, and talk normally and directly to the person, not the care giver.  Neither stare nor avoid eye contact.
Relax and make an open, friendly, first impression -- just as you would upon meeting any other person!

3.  Offer assistance, but don't insist.
It's kind to offer assistance -- just as you would upon meeting any other person -- but do not be pushy if the offer is demured.  The person in the wheelchair knows best what assistance s/he really needs.

4.  Use normal vocabulary.
Speak normally, just as you would to any other person.  I first learned this from our blind neighbor, when I mentioned "seeing" something and then apologized with embarrassment.  He laughed and assured me he "sees," just in a different way.  People in wheelchairs can "run along" or "walk down the street" or generally progress, too, just in a different way.

5.  Sit down, if possible, for an extended conversation.
It is awkward for a seated person to arch his/her neck back over a long period to converse with a person standing close by. Consider sitting down for an extended conversation or, if that's not possible, going down on one knee to speak at a mutual eye level.

6.  Answer children's questions matter-of-factly.
If I had a nickel for every child who innocently pointed at my son in his wheelchair and asked loudly, much to their parents' chagrin, "What's wrong with him?", I'd be as rich as Croesus.  Children are (sometimes brutally) honest.  But, they also respond well to honesty and kindness in return.  Simply smile, encourage the child to say hello or acknowledge the individual personally, and quietly explain the difficulty in brief, simple terms.  For example, my son has cerebral palsy and other related diagnoses, so I usually just say, "Well, this is [name]!  And his muscles don't always work the way they're supposed to, so he uses a wheelchair to get around."

7.  Thank the person and consider offering future assistance.
Express to the person how lovely it was to meet him/her -- just as you would upon meeting any other person!  If you feel moved to do so, make a sincere general offer to assist in the future, with whatever might be needed. 

8.  A person with a disability is not a "poor cripple."  In many ways, he or she is just like you!
It is difficult enough to compensate for a disability in one's life without enduring excessive and sometimes embarrassing or demeaning pity.  Try to see the unique, individual person and not his/her infirmity.

9.  If you don't know, just ask!
It is so heartwarming to receive even the most awkward inquiry when it is prefaced or made simply with genuine kindness, interest, or concern.  I'd much rather educate someone helpfully than have a person miss an opportunity to feel more comfortable around those with special needs.

10.  Afterward, remember the person in your prayers.  Pray for his/her strength in dealing with the disability, and thank God for your opportunity to care for others.
On the most elemental level, having or living with someone who has a severe disability brings a whole new level of appreciation to the old adage, "Well, at least you have your health!"  I can't speak for every person who is disabled, but I can tell you that my own experiences over the years have revealed that they are just like any other person you'd meet (do you sense a theme here?).  It's just that sometimes their cross to bear in life might be more visible than yours. 

I encourage you always to reach past your own hesitations and extend a hand of welcome, both literally and figuratively, to anyone you might encounter who has special needs.  Even if you don't know precisely what type of help or welcome to offer, your genuine smile and open kindness will be a thousand times more comforting to that person than if had you remained silent in your uncertainty and sidled away.

Who knows?  You just might be meeting the friend of a lifetime!

Thank you! 

The Gift of Humility

This week, another homeschooling mom showed inspiring humility by sharing with me (...okay, "venting!") some of her frustrations that day.  It seemed everything she had spent the past two decades teaching her children had flown directly out the window!  The laundry was mountainous; the kitchen was a sticky mess; and school work that day was most characterized by inattention.

Go figure!

Now, I will have you know that this mother is widely regarded as a "Super Mom" around here, so you know where I'm going with this:

"Whew!  Thank God!  It's not just me!"

It's never easy to have a "bad day" with our children, and on the most elemental level I think we moms actually are consoled by shared conversations that include the selfish relief of, "Whew!  It's not just me!"  When we see "Super Moms" who really DO have their act together in so many ways and for so many years, their "bad day" here or there gives the rest of us the encouragement of knowing that, even for the most talented mothers among us, not every day is perfect, even in homeschooling.


Now, I'm not encouraging you here to go out and gripe gloomily and endlessly about your vocation as a stay-at-homeschooling-mom (or whatever your parental situation is), which actually is quite a privilege.  I am, however, encouraging you not only to be a good listener to your mom-friends when they need to vent, but also to welcome the shared support of reciprocity in that regard.  Allow yourself to share your frustrations or perceived failures with a trusted confidant who shares similar moral and family goals, and I'd be willing to bet you both will end your conversation by feeling the relief of released anxiety.

Lift each other up in prayer and be renewed in your commitment to the gift of the lifestyle that God has given you and your family!

It is a gift of humility for us to step out from behind The Polite Facade we all wear to face the public.  Share that gift with a dear friend who can help you reorient your focus back to being on your knees, not in frustrated defeat, but in the triumph of grateful supplication and prayer.

As I like to say:  "In homeschooling, not every day will be perfect, but every day will be blessed."

So, the years might fly by, but if today feels like an eternity, think about what God might be wanting you to learn today -- and perhaps it's not geography, math, nor algebra.

Plus, in the immortal words of Scarlett O'Hara, don't worry about it too much.  Because, "after all, tomorrow is another day!"

Halloween + All Saints Costumes!

For many years, we were the fortunate attendees at an "All Saints Party," hosted by one of our homeschool group's wonderful families.  With a parade of saints, potluck dinner, hayrides, tree swings, saints' candy path (you knew there had to be candy, right?), bonfire, and a late night music jam, there was something for everyone, from toddlers to teens.  As the beneficiaries of this fabulous evening, we never really ran into the dilemma of "Halloween costumes" vs. "All Saints costumes."

Until now.

After nearly 20 years of welcoming well over 100 people to this festive annual event, and with their children all grown, that family understandably has retired from hosting it.  God is so very good, however -- another family generously has stepped up to open their home and continue the tradition.  (Thank you!)

The new "All Saints Party," however, will be held the weekend after Halloween.

(*gasp!*)

"But, what will we do on Halloween!?" my children wailed (yes, we get plenty of practice with scary noises around here).

Trick or treating, for me, absolutely is out of the question.  There are far too many literally evil cultural influences on display and afoot on Halloween night to throw my lambs to the wolves just for the sake of a bag of candy.  The devil requires only the slightest invitation to.... (*shudder*).  Ugh.  Perish the thought.

But, because my children are well-schooled on the actual origins of "All Hallows' Eve" (the Eve of the Feast of All Saints, or all holy [holy being "hallowed", as in "Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name..."] souls), the interest is there to dress up and indulge one's sweet tooth.

So, welcome to The Great Costume Debate!

It's actually not a huge problem around here.  My children still all are Lilliputians, who have neither the exposure to nor the stomach for the nauseatingly macabre costume fare available on the general market.  But, they still want something with the appropriate "wow factor" for the season.

Hellooooooo, St. Denis!

If you have a boy who is looking for a Halloween costume, while you are looking for his All Saints costume, then St. Denis is the man for you!  While many male saints can be represented in costume with a wide and varied assortment of masculine accoutrement and dangerous weapons, I've only seen St. Denis justifiably portrayed carrying around his own decapitated head.

No, really!  It's true!  Look here:

http://cantuar.blogspot.com/2012/10/saint-denis-head-carrying-bishop-of.html?utm_source=feedburner&tm_medium=feedutm_campaign=Feed%3A+taylormarshall+%28Canterbury+Tales+by+Taylor+Marshall%29

Another great resource for costume ideas for little ones always can be found on Lacy's blog at Catholic Icing.  She has costume ideas for both girls and boys.  She even has lists of groups of saints for family dress up!

And of course, here's an awesome list of saint costume ideas, from kilts to crosses and peasants to priests!

A blessed All Hallows Eve!  Enjoy!

An Opportunity for Charity

"I love Blessed Mother Theresa of Calcutta (who's going to say they don't, right?).  I loved her philosophy of, “Show me the money!”

No, really.  It’s true.

When I worked for Catholic Relief Services (CRS) (crs.org), we were well-familiar with Mother Teresa’s Missionaries of Charity (motherteresa.org) based in Calcutta, India.  CRS was one of the first organizations in the early 1970s to recognize her vital mission.  “They gave me milk, when no one else would,” she remembered when visiting the agency’s headquarters in Baltimore, MD in 1996.  Since the agency maintains a presence in Calcutta, CRS staff have volunteered in Mother Teresa’s homes for the dying and other establishments for “the poorest of the poor.”

And it was a well-known fact that if you were able-bodied and showed up on her doorstep, you didn’t show up empty-handed.

“You’d better have either a check or a mop in your hands,” one agency member cheerfully recalled, shaking his head with a grin.  “Mother is nobody’s fool.”

Mother Teresa advocated that one must never deny a person the opportunity for charity, for that act of charity might be the salvation of that person’s soul.  But, charity must be given not only in the coinage of the world but in the currency of heaven, too:

“Let us more and more insist on raising funds of love, of kindness, of understanding, of peace. Money will come.  If we seek first the Kingdom of God, the rest will be given.” (Bl. Mother Teresa of Calcutta)

I invite you today to open your hearts and your resources to some extraordinary, special-needs students, who are seeking the Kingdom of God, striving to learn about and understand, through hands-on science, the world which God created for them!  It might seem like a small, superfluous, or simple thing to support a little child’s science class when there are many, many critical needs in our world today.

But, God has placed each of us within each other’s orbit to do what we can for those who are closest to us.  For a child with special needs to comprehend even one more tiny aspect of the world around him – that IS a vital need!

And these children are right here in our local community, in our own back yard.  As a matter of fact, one of them is there right now.  Here.  In my own back yard.

No, really.  I can see him out the kitchen window.

He’s my son.

“If you can’t feed a hundred people, then feed just one.” (Bl. Mother Teresa of Calcutta)

I humbly present and encourage you to support an inspiring opportunity for charity – my son’s special needs science class of some of the most severely and profoundly disabled and delightful children in Ms. Sally Grove’s class at Rock Creek School in Frederick, MD.

The details of her course (making abstract concepts real), materials, and costs (less than $650 for the entire year!) may be found here (and below at the end of this blog post):

http://www.donorschoose.org/project/let-me-get-my-hands-on-that-making-sc/885893/?verify=222560514&challengeid=231048

I hope you will join me in supporting these kids and Ms. Sally (she was Frederick County’s “Special Educator of the Year” last year!).  Every dollar counts – even $5.00 means the world!  And if you donate by October 16^th and use the match code, “INSPIRE,” your gift will be DOUBLED!

“Let us not be satisfied with just giving money. Money is not enough, money can be got, but they need your hearts to love them. So, spread your love everywhere you go.” (Bl. Mother Teresa of Calcutta)

Thank you so much for considering these kids in your hearts and prayers!!!
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“Let Me Get My Hands on That -- Making Science Real!!!”

Rock Creek School

Science Teacher:  Ms. Sally Grove

My Students: Learning science can be tough for any student, but for my special needs students, it is especially challenging.  I teach the best students in the world!  Our school serves over 100 of the most severely and profoundly disabled students, ages 3 to 21, who function developmentally from Toddler to 2nd Grade.  I teach middle school science.

My Project: My students require hands-on learning materials they can view, touch, and maneuver to understand abstract concepts and make science REAL.  Manipulatives allow a hands-on experience to make science real, fun, and meaningful!

Project Details

Materials	Vendor	Price	#	Total
RE266 - Lens & Prism Set	Lakeshore Learning	$16.95	1	$16.95
LC3540X - Prepared Slides - Complete Set	Lakeshore Learning	$39.95	1	$39.95
FS326 - Super-Safe Prisms - Set of 6	Lakeshore Learning	$29.95	1	$29.95
BA109 - See-Inside Bucket Balance	Lakeshore Learning	$16.95	1	$16.95
EA133 - Count Up & Count Down Digital Timer	Lakeshore Learning	$13.99	2	$27.98
JJ159 - Lakeshore Electricity Lab	Lakeshore Learning	$49.95	1	$49.95
DS575 - Simple Machines Activity Cards	Lakeshore Learning	$14.95	1	$14.95
DS574 - Simple Machines Discovery Set	Lakeshore Learning	$42.95	1	$42.95
GR700 - Life Cycle Sequencing Kit	Lakeshore Learning	$29.95	1	$29.95
DD904 - Life Cycle of a Frog Elementary Specimen Set	Lakeshore Learning	$49.95	1	$49.95
FS491 - Human X-Rays - Set of 18	Lakeshore Learning	$26.95	1	$26.95
CE501 - Magnetic Field Wonder Window	Lakeshore Learning	$29.95	1	$29.95
LC1011 - Sink or Float Exploration Kit	Lakeshore Learning	$49.95	1	$49.95
EE512 - Lakeshore Magnet Kit	Lakeshore Learning	$49.95	1	$49.95
Vendor shipping charges				$0.00
State sales tax				$28.58
3rd party payment processing fee				$7.14
Fulfillment labor & materials				$30.00
Project cost excluding donation to support DonorsChoose.org				$542.05
Optional donation to support DonorsChoose.org				$95.66
Project cost including donation to support DonorsChoose.org				$637.71
5 Donors				-$257.06
GOAL TO GO!				$380.65

Feast of the Guardian Angels

40 Miles For Life - HE DID IT!

THANK YOU so very much to everyone who physically and spiritually was following Chris on this Feast of the Archangels in his 40 Miles For Life!

HE DID IT!

From 7:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., Chris ran forty miles from the abortion clinic on Tollhouse Avenue in Frederick, to the Perpetual Adoration Chapel at St. Peter's in Libertytown, to the Grotto of Lourdes at MSM in Emmitsburg.  He made it throughout the day consuming only water and nutritional liquid supplements, without any solid food until he got home at 5:30 p.m.

WOW!!!

Along the way, people graciously called to update me with reports of, "He's healthy!" and "He looks fresh and great!", etc.  And our eldest son and I were privileged to be Chris's crew at a midday stop in Creagerstown.

THANK YOU to every single one of you!  We never could have done it without your gracious and generous support!  All in the quest to end abortion through prayer and fasting!  May God bless you and all our efforts for LIFE in the same measure as you have so kindly given of your time and talents today.

Thank you!

40 Days of Fast and Prayer

When the apostles were unable to expel a particularly powerful demon, Our Lord admonished them, "But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting."  (Matthew 17:21).


Today marks the beginning of our opportunity for 40 days of fast and prayer for our nation, ending on Election Day on November 2nd!  Please make whatever prayers and sacrifices you can to save our nation!  Remember, we are placed under the patronage of Our Lady as the Immaculate Conception, and her Son cannot refuse her requests.

Ember Days

BONUS GRACES:  Because today is the Saturday following September 14th (the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross), it is part of one of the quarterly sets of Ember Days of the Church.  Click here for a detailed explanation.  Don't miss this special opportunity for efficacious prayer and fasting!

(see also http://catholicism.about.com/od/holydaysandholidays/p/Ember_Days.htm)

Ember Days

BONUS GRACES:  Because today is the Friday following September 14th (the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross), it is part of one of the quarterly sets of Ember Days of the Church.  Click here for a detailed explanation.  Don't miss this special opportunity for efficacious prayer and fasting!

 (see also http://catholicism.about.com/od/holydaysandholidays/p/Ember_Days.htm)

Ember Days

BONUS GRACES:  Because today is the Wednesday following September 14th (the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross), it is part of one of the quarterly sets of Ember Days of the Church.  Click here for a detailed explanation.  Don't miss this special opportunity for efficacious prayer and fasting!

 (see also http://catholicism.about.com/od/holydaysandholidays/p/Ember_Days.htm)

Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows

Today is the Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows.  Read all about it and be inspired here:

http://catholicinformation.aquinasandmore.com/2012/09/04/september-is-the-month-of-the-seven-sorrows/

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross - September 14th
Novena Prayer

Jesus, Who because of Your burning love for us, willed to be crucified and to shed Your Most Precious Blood for the redemption and salvation of our souls, look down upon us and grant the petition we ask for: (mention your request).

We trust completely in Your Mercy.  Cleanse us from sin by Your Grace, sanctify our work, give us and all those who are dear to us our daily bread, lighten the burden of our sufferings, bless our families, and grant to the nations, so sorely afflicted, Your Peace, which is the only true peace, so that by obeying Your Commandments we may all come at last to the glory of Heaven.

(Pray an Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.)

Amen.

(Novena prayer courtesy of EWTN Global Catholic Network, www.ewtn.com)
("Crucifixion", Painting by Spanish painter Alonso Cano {1601-1667}, Oil on Canvas, c. 1640.)

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This day also is called the Exaltation of the Cross, Elevation of the Cross, Holy Cross Day, Holy Rood Day, or Roodmas. The liturgy of the Cross is a triumphant liturgy. When Moses lifted up the bronze serpent over the people, it was a foreshadowing of the salvation through Jesus, when He was lifted up on the Cross. Our Mother Church sings of the triumph of the Cross, the instrument of our redemption. To follow Christ we must take up His cross, follow Him and become obedient until death, even if it means death on the cross. We identify with Christ on the Cross and share in His cross.

We make the Sign of the Cross before prayer, which helps to fix our minds and hearts to God. After prayer we make the Sign of the Cross to keep close to God. During trials and temptations, our strength and protection is the Sign of the Cross. At Baptism, we are sealed with the Sign of the Cross, signifying the fullness of redemption and that we belong to Christ.

Let us look to the cross frequently, and realize that when we make the Sign of the Cross we give our entire self to God — mind, soul, heart, body, will, thoughts.

BONUS ACTIVITY:  Tradition holds that sweet basil grew over the hill where St. Helena found the Holy Cross, so in Greece the faithful are given sprigs of basil by the priest. Cook a basil pesto, tomato basil salad (with the last of the summer tomatoes!) or some other type of recipe that includes basil, and explain to the tradition to your family.


BONUS GRACES:  The Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday following September 14th (the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross) mark one of the quarterly sets of Ember Days of the Church.  Click here for a detailed explanation.  Don't miss this special opportunity for efficacious prayer and fasting!

(source: http://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/calendar/day.cfm?date=2012-09-14)

Novena (Day 9): Exaltation of the Holy Cross

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross - September 14th
Novena (Day 9 of 9)

Jesus, Who because of Your burning love for us, willed to be crucified and to shed Your Most Precious Blood for the redemption and salvation of our souls, look down upon us and grant the petition we ask for: (mention your request).

We trust completely in Your Mercy.  Cleanse us from sin by Your Grace, sanctify our work, give us and all those who are dear to us our daily bread, lighten the burden of our sufferings, bless our families, and grant to the nations, so sorely afflicted, Your Peace, which is the only true peace, so that by obeying Your Commandments we may all come at last to the glory of Heaven.

(Pray an Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.)

Amen.

(Novena prayer courtesy of EWTN Global Catholic Network, www.ewtn.com)
("Crucifixion", Painting by Spanish painter Alonso Cano {1601-1667}, Oil on Canvas, c. 1640.)

Novena (Day 8): Exaltation of the Holy Cross

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross - September 14th
Novena (Day 8 of 9)

Jesus, Who because of Your burning love for us, willed to be crucified and to shed Your Most Precious Blood for the redemption and salvation of our souls, look down upon us and grant the petition we ask for: (mention your request).

We trust completely in Your Mercy.  Cleanse us from sin by Your Grace, sanctify our work, give us and all those who are dear to us our daily bread, lighten the burden of our sufferings, bless our families, and grant to the nations, so sorely afflicted, Your Peace, which is the only true peace, so that by obeying Your Commandments we may all come at last to the glory of Heaven.

(Pray an Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.)

Amen.

(Novena prayer courtesy of EWTN Global Catholic Network, www.ewtn.com)
("Crucifixion", Painting by Spanish painter Alonso Cano {1601-1667}, Oil on Canvas, c. 1640.)

Novena (Day 7): Exaltation of the Holy Cross

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross - September 14th
Novena (Day 7 of 9)

Jesus, Who because of Your burning love for us, willed to be crucified and to shed Your Most Precious Blood for the redemption and salvation of our souls, look down upon us and grant the petition we ask for: (mention your request).

We trust completely in Your Mercy.  Cleanse us from sin by Your Grace, sanctify our work, give us and all those who are dear to us our daily bread, lighten the burden of our sufferings, bless our families, and grant to the nations, so sorely afflicted, Your Peace, which is the only true peace, so that by obeying Your Commandments we may all come at last to the glory of Heaven.

(Pray an Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.)

Amen.

(Novena prayer courtesy of EWTN Global Catholic Network, www.ewtn.com)
("Crucifixion", Painting by Spanish painter Alonso Cano {1601-1667}, Oil on Canvas, c. 1640.)

Novena (Day 6): Exaltation of the Holy Cross

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross - September 14th
Novena (Day 6 of 9)

Jesus, Who because of Your burning love for us, willed to be crucified and to shed Your Most Precious Blood for the redemption and salvation of our souls, look down upon us and grant the petition we ask for: (mention your request).

We trust completely in Your Mercy.  Cleanse us from sin by Your Grace, sanctify our work, give us and all those who are dear to us our daily bread, lighten the burden of our sufferings, bless our families, and grant to the nations, so sorely afflicted, Your Peace, which is the only true peace, so that by obeying Your Commandments we may all come at last to the glory of Heaven.

(Pray an Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.)

Amen.

(Novena prayer courtesy of EWTN Global Catholic Network, www.ewtn.com)
("Crucifixion", Painting by Spanish painter Alonso Cano {1601-1667}, Oil on Canvas, c. 1640.)